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Amber - Getting Tired

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 I'm getting tired of writing in this blog, maybe I'm just tired all together.  I am very behind on everything but I run out of energy far too quickly.  So I am putting my goals down again but I'm not feeling great right now.  However, I'm not changing them because I also feel really good about how they are right now. My room is an electronic-free space Keep my temple covenants so that one day I can share a beautiful relationship with my chosen partner I like staying in the real world because of all of the wonderful real experiences I have in it Below are my goals that will help make this a reality. Make signs of goals and affirmations as needed and display them where I will see. Study extra resources on each of the three sub goals. Work on changing my reactions to triggers. When I feel lonely I pick something from my service list and do it When I have trouble staying in the real world then I work on my current memorizing item When I feel tempted then I call someone ...

Amber - Feeling hopeful

Hello new week!  I love Mondays, it always feels so fresh and hopeful.  I am excited to make progress on these goals this week.  I may have to start going to bed early in order to do it though.  So here are is what I'm aiming for. My room is an electronic-free space Keep my temple covenants so that one day I can share a beautiful relationship with my chosen partner I like staying in the real world because of all of the wonderful real experiences I have in it Below are my goals that will help make this a reality. Make signs of goals and affirmations as needed and display them where I will see. Study extra resources on each of the three sub goals. Work on changing my reactions to triggers. When I feel lonely I pick something from my service list and do it When I have trouble staying in the real world then I work on my current memorizing item When I feel tempted then I call someone on my close to list Practice all of the above (pausing to read signs and visualizing, pic...

Amber - Getting organized properly

 I've got myself more organized now.  I've decided to put at least one thing on my day to do list from my list I made yesterday.  Here are my three aspirations, this is what I want. My room is an electronic-free space Keep my temple covenants so that one day I can share a beautiful relationship with my chosen partner I like staying in the real world because of all of the wonderful real experiences I have in it Below are my goals that will help make those aspirations a reality. Make signs of goals and affirmations as needed and display them where I will see. Study extra resources on each of the three sub goals. Work on changing my reactions to triggers. When I feel lonely I pick something from my service list and do it When I have trouble staying in the real world then I work on my current memorizing item When I feel tempted then I call someone on my close to list Practice all of the above (pausing to read signs and visualizing, picking up my memorizing, feeling lonely, an...

Amber - Start of a new year

 Ok I've reorganized and refocused and come up with a better plan.  If you remember some posts back I mentioned that my main goal was getting back to the temple.  Because it was so personal I wasn't posting all of my goals, well having two sets of goals and only reporting on one has been a little confusing so I'm going to be putting all of my goals on here, slightly edited because I'm not quite that comfortable.  However you are all my family so I'm fine if you know that I'm struggling, well to be honest I don't really care that much if you actually know what I'm struggling with. Anyways I started by figuring out the three biggest things I needed to not do and then I turned them into positives because that is more fun but also because that actually works better.  If you put your thoughts onto what you don't want then it feeds that energy and it becomes more likely to happen.  I'd prefer to starve the negative and spend my time enjoying the positi...